The Power of Visualizing Your Goals

The Power of Visualizing Your Goals

The Power of Visualizing Your Goals

Visualization is something that can be somewhat controversial. Visualizing goals is one of the most common tips alongside ‘living your dreams’ but just like that statement, it’s a little oversimplified. Because according to research, visualization can reduce your likelihood of success in some instances. The reason for this is that when we visualize a goal, it can actually be demotivating.

This makes us feel as though we have already accomplished whatever it is we’re setting out to achieve and it allows us to rest on our laurels that much more. At the same time, visualizing can often be too abstract, too vague, and too flaky to be of any real use. People who daydream about doing what they want – according to science – often don’t actually make those goals a reality.

But that’s not to say that visualization is useless. It’s just a matter of understanding how to use it as a tool and how to not allow it to take over.

What is Visualization? And How it Helps with CBT and The Law of Attraction

Perhaps a good way to start would be by looking at precisely what visualization is. We’re going to look at that here, as well as at how visualization can actually be combined with CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) techniques in order to achieve even more powerful effects. So visualization involves using your mind’s eye to picture the future you want to live.

When you do this, what is actually happening, is that you are causing areas in your brain to fire as though you were really experiencing that thing. When you picture walking through the woods, for example, areas relating to movement will fire, as will areas in your visual cortex (V1). Of course, they fire less than if that thing were actually happening but on the whole, the experience is very similar.

This, therefore, means that when you visualize something, your brain effectively thinks that it is already happening. And therefore, visualization can be such a potent tool when it comes to confidence, motivation, and sticking with a goal. CBT is a school of psychology that revolves around attempting to change our thought processes to help us accomplish more.

It means looking at limiting beliefs (‘I’ve never been particularly good’), challenging them with the evidence, and then replacing them with more positive statements (‘I have a powerful skillset’). This helps make us more motivated and more likely to achieve our goals. But we can likewise accomplish the same with visualization, only now we’ll be able to visualize specific goals and feel like they’re already happening.

When you visualize being a billionaire, your brain will temporarily feel as though you are a billionaire. And if you believe this, even temporarily, then you’ll find your chances of actually becoming that thing increase thanks to the ‘law of attraction’. The law of attraction states that when we believe ourselves to be a certain way, we tend to become that thing because of the way it changes our presentation and our actions.

When you believe that you’re an incredibly savvy businessman or woman, you start to be more confident in interviews, you take more positive risks in investments and you walk taller. You’ll even dress more professionally and people will sit up and take notice of that – which will ultimately lead to you being more likely to get the promotions and the responsibility you need to thrive.

Visualize. Believe. And make it happen!

More Practical Uses for Visualization

The other practical use of visualization is in creating that mission statement. If you’ve had difficulty identifying the things that make you passionate, then try closing your eyes for a moment and visualizing your perfect future.

Imagine yourself 10-20 years from now. Where do you want to be? Where do you live? What’s your house like? Do you have a family? What is your job?

Some people will picture a quiet little cottage for them and their family. Some people will find themselves relaxing around a fire at Christmas playing board games with their children. Others will picture themselves traveling the world. Or they’ll see themselves in a professional-looking suite, standing in a high-rise building looking over the cityscape below.

Whatever the case, it is easy for most of us to conjure up the possible ideal future that would make us happiest. And it’s from this abstract set of ideas that we can then go about creating more concrete goals and strategies. We can also draw on our memories for this. If you’re struggling to come up with a perfect future, then how about digging into your perfect past? What are your happiest memories? What were your proudest moments? By remembering this, you can identify the things that might make you happiest in the future.

Another way to use visualization is in ‘counterfactual simulation’. This means imagining possible futures and thinking about all the things that you can do to make them happen or avoid them going wrong. This is also a great way to test-run ideas for your future. Thinking about being a rock star? Then take a moment to consider what that would mean. Visualize it and go through each step: is it really for you?

You would be in the public eye, you’d be rich, you’d be constantly traveling, it would be harder to have a family, you’d have to perform in front of thousands, people would consider you highly successful.

There’s good and bad there depending on who you are, so actually, a picture that future, run it through in your mind, think of every contingency and then decide if you still think that it is right for you!

How to look highly confident and successful

How to look highly confident and successful

How to LOOK Highly Confident and Successful

The law of attraction tells us that as you look, so you will become. In other words, it really is possible to ‘fake it until you make it’. If you look the part and act the part, then people are going to assume you know what you’re doing. And when that happens, the flood gates open and opportunities begin to throw themselves at you!

With that in mind then, dressing the right way and communicating that you are someone highly confident that knows what they’re doing is an important thing to be able to pull off. And I know this to be true from experience. In particular, I know it to be true from my driving exam where I came across as highly confident despite being incredibly nervous and out of my depth. The fact I seemed confident gave the instructor faith in me and I passed despite making a lot of errors. Meanwhile, my friend who was a great driver but highly nervous ended up taking their test five times before they passed!

So the question is: how do you look confident when you aren’t? How do you stay calm even though your nerves are going crazy?

The first thing to do is to smile. Smiling actually releases neurochemicals in your brain such as serotonin that help to improve your mood and make you feel a lot calmer. This happens even if you aren’t actually happy and it also communicates to others that you are less nervous!

Another way to come across as confident is to be more decisive. One of the biggest signs that we are feeling anxious is an inability to settle on a decision and this sort of thing can instantly cause people to lose faith in us. But if you are still able to stick to a decision and make judgments, you will come across as calm and in control.

Finally, looking confident and successful is also a matter of how you present yourself. If you look the part then people will assume you have things under control. Being tall and good looking even correlates with a higher salary for this reason!

Dress smartly (a suit goes a long way), look after your health (stay toned, moisturize and eat a nutritious diet and people be willing to hand responsibility over to you even when you might not feel calm and in command.